For centuries, people have had issues with women’s bodies. Women used to have to wear ridiculous corsets and girdles every day, and they weren’t allowed to show their ankles. They had their corsets laced so tight that the breasts would be almost coming out of them. Starting in the 16th century, corsets were a major part of women’s fashion.
The modern bra wasn’t really invented until the early 20th Century. Now, people still have hang-ups about what women are wearing. Many women are choosing not to wear bras anymore. People give some pretty sexist reasons to try and make women feel as if they have to wear one.
The awesome site, Everday Feminism, made an interesting comic with the reasons why we are told to wears bras and the reasons that bras are cool.
Body Shaming Comments When You Are Not Wearing A Bra
These are some of the tacky things people say when you don’t wear a bra.
1. “Can’t Blame Me For Looking.”
This type of comment comes in many forms, but the basic idea is that women should be blamed for men being perverts.
2. “They’re Going to Get Saggy.”
First, that’s just rude. Secondly, that is a myth; wearing a bra doesn’t prevent them from sagging.
3. “Are You Being A Tease?”
No, I’m existing. The fact that I have those parts doesn’t mean that I automatically am flirting. My boobs are not removable.
4. “People Will Get The Wrong Idea.”
This is similar to the above comment. It’s my body, and I have the right to wear whatever I want to.
5. “Gross. Put Them Away.”
Really? Again, they are body parts. If you don’t like it, go away.
6. To A Trans Woman: “You Have To Dress The Part.”
Transgender people already have a lot of sh*t to deal with. Don’t judge them further.
Reasons To Wear A Bra
1. It Makes You Feel Sexy.
Every woman should wear whatever she wants to. We all deserve to feel sexy even if you are the only one seeing the lingerie.
2. Working Out.
A sports bra can really help when you are exercising. It keeps “the girls” in place.
3. You Find It Affirming.
Similar to the first reason, but still important. Some women like to be girly and wear sexy lingerie.
4. They Make You Feel Comfortable.
Some women like the security of a bra. For those that don’t want to show as much skin, the right bra can really help.
5. You Like Bras.
Bras are pretty. You can get them in all kinds of patterns and fabrics and styles.
6. Because You Just Want To.
Seriously, you don’t need to explain your clothing choices to anyone.
Here is a YouTuber talking about the reasons that she no longer wears a bra.
https://youtu.be/Kmer_dDG3SU
Featured image is a clip from the cartoon at Everyday Feminism. Really a must see graphic.
h/t: Everyday Feminism
